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It is often said that you never really know a person until you have lived with them and even the best of friends may find themselves surprised by the habits of the people they consider such a large part of their lives. Sharing space is very much a personal concept. Some do it easily and naturally, while others find it a little harder. A holiday is a time intended for relaxation and enjoyment and it is important to realise there are two definite schools of thought when it comes to holidays with friends: either it works for you or it doesn’t.

When it works

Do you share ideals on discipline where the children are concerned? Are you able to weigh in on important matters with your friends’ kids? Do your partners get along? These questions should definitely be taken into consideration. If your families have been spending a lot of time together and get along really well you may find the joint holiday and the happiness and sharing right up your alley.

War at home

If you tend to be a more private family who enjoys separation while on holiday a joint trip could well become your worst nightmare. You may have to spend your time listening to a friend’s child crying into the early hours of the morning or may have to watch helplessly as their husband fusses with your children to secure his own time with the TV. Boundaries are likely to be crossed when living in such close proximity and if you may well find that sharing space on holiday is a recipe for arguments and disaster.

Keep it in the family

Family holidays including siblings and parents may well be the ideal solution. Having known each other your whole lives means there is likely little about the other person’s behaviour that will shock you.

Keep your friendships safe and holiday with family as an alternative.

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