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When we were at school, the thought of being called to the principal’s office was enough to keep us from breaking the rules on many occasions. As an adult, a meeting with your child’s principal may bring on the same feelings of dread and fear, but as a parent, you have an obligation to make sure that the meeting is a success. A meeting regarding an incident at school or your child’s general behaviour need not be a negative experience. If plans are made ahead and if the right attitude is adopted, discussing matter s may lead to good results.

Planning ahead

If you have been called to solve a negative situation or issue, it is best to hear your child’s side of the story before the meeting. Listening to your child may help you understand their problem at school. It will also give you a clearer perspective on the matter once you have heard both sides of the story.

Adopting the right attitude

It is best to enter the meeting with an open mind. The principal probably wants to find a solution to the problem as much as you do. If you disagree with the school or feel that your child has been wrongly accused, it is best to seek common ground. Watch what you say because your child will deal with the consequences of your actions. If you cannot do so, it may be time to move your child to another school.

Dress for success!

Wear a suitable outfit and take note of your body language. You should opt for something conservative and formal rather that trendy and fashionable. You will be judged on your appearance and by dressing appropriately, you will identify yourself as someone to be taken seriously.

Keep your tone friendly and use open body language. Try to remain calm and find your comfort zone. Regardless of what happens, your child’s interests should always come first.

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